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@Fiery154
Teachers need training on these types of methods with maintaining authority.
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@rebeccarosman8396
"Authority is always about concern for others." Yes.
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@jeffmejia3556
I learned how to pause for about 3 seconds making eye contact, which in itself causes the moment to be uncomfortable, and I ask slowly and deliberately, “Would you repeat what you just said?”
They don’t. Instead, their tone changes and becomes apologetic , “I didn’t mean it like that. It’s just that…”
I like these as well.
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@KarenT-kh6sy
Great way to call them on it without it being more confrontational than needed.
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@sg2255-6
I've done this before without knowing it was a strategy for an aggressive situation/person, and it worked.
In my situation, just telling the aggressive person they seem angry or upset and asking if they're okay did the trick. They responded with a list of unrelated things they are frustrated about lately and then actually apologized to me for the way they communicated themselves. My response was simply "I'm sorry you're feeling this way." No additional conversation was necessary.
Great advice, Chase...tyfs 👍
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@sonofhibbs4425
‘’You can always get away with a lot with concern…’’. Yes I noticed a narcissist uses this tactic too to override the abuse he dished out. He was in leadership position too. He would abuse his authority over someone, then when they showed disdain, he acted like he was concerned. Very sickening.
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@tracyaf6084
Omg! The first one is basically what my mother taught me to say. She would say “were you intentionally being rude/disrespectful/agressive/whatever or did I just misinterpret you?”. It’s never done me wrong. 99% of the time, the person catches themselves and corrects their course.
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@kungazopa2831
The person asking the questions in an interaction is the person who has the control.
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@dramalife25
When you try that with a narcissist...good luck with that! 😔
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@DNAConsultingDetectives
Great advice. I was genuinely surprised at “authority is always about concern for others.” Well done.
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@Jennx7080
I swear Chase unlocked some kind of door. Positivity, coming from a good place, tapping into positives instead of all negatives to adjust the situation. About to start reading the Ellipsis Manual can't wait
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@cherimolina2121
Eye contact is important. Being able to pick up on someone dissing you without blatantly dissing you is important. Calling them on it stops their bullying you.. and possibly others. Teach your children. You can let it fly a time or two but eventually the person needs an intervention. It may be learned behavior they aren't aware of.
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@FreespeechX99
My friends & I took a flight to Dallas to shop for the day. The cab driver began driving in the wrong direction, we all looked at each other questioningly … Lauren asked the guy where he was going and he gave some weird address. She told him to take us to .. etc and he slowly turned and was watching us in his Rearview mirror with a creepy look on his face. We got to the mall. Lauren paid him the price from airport to mall. We knew it because we took the flight a lot. We jumped out and I asked her how she knew he would turn around. She was the oldest at 29. She said I talked to him just like I talk to my son when I catch him disobeying. It amazed me. She said when you have children you’ll understand. I do now. My youngest is 37, I have 9 grandchildren and 4 great grandchildren. As you realize you have authority over your children for their good & safety, you use that authority with confidence. My boss taught me how to deal with irate people, which is powerful. It’s authority mixed with confidence and wisdom to know what type of person you’re dealing with. It still works.
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@0Fallacy
I am in love with this man's brain
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@kaymarham5486
"We can get away with a lot with concern." This approach of 'leadership shows concern for others' and using that to fire a shot across the bows makes so much sense. Love it! 👏 Thank you! 🌷🌿